WHAT EXACTLY IS PAIN??
The pain you experience is nothing but blocks of energy which are not allowed to flow or simply stagnated energy.
The pain that one experiences starts accumulating right from childhood, manier times even before birth in the womb. Each time since early childhood, when we stopped the flow of energy in a painful event , we froze that event in both energy and time. This is what we call as a block in our Auric field.
Since the auric field is composed of energy consciousness, a block is created of frozen energy consciousness.
The part of our Psych remains frozen until we have healed it or made peace with it fully. No matter how much our body and mind grows, that particular psych still continues to be frozen and stuck. Its not a co-incidence how even "old" or mature people can be stuck in certain issues which comes out in a form of reaction and emotional bursts, WHEN POKED. This frozen psych will not mature until it is healed by getting enough energy to initiate the maturation process.
The famous phrase "move on" or "grow up" precisely represents the above.
This concept is very well explained by Eckhart Tolle in the form of "emotional pain bodies"
Every emotional pain body that you experience leaves behind a residue of pain that lives on in the person. It merges with the pain from the past , which was already there and becomes lodged in your mind and body. This accumulated pain is a negative energy field that occupies your body and mind, this is known as the emotional pain body.
A pain body maybe dormant 90% of the time; in a deeply unhappy person though, it maybe active 100% of the time. some people live almost entirely through their pain-body, while others may experience it only in certain situations linked with past loss or abandonment, physical or emotional hurt and so on.
Anything can trigger it, particularly if it resonates with a pain pattern from your past.
when its ready to awaken from its dormant stage , even a thought or an innocent remark made by someone close to you can activate it.
Some pain bodies are obnoxious but relatively harmless, for ex like a child who won't stop whining. others are vicious and destructive monsters. some are physically violent ; many more emotionally violent. some will attack people around you , while others may attack you their host.